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	<title>Comments on: Gay former player encourages current gay players to come out</title>
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		<title>By: godzilla111111</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1832213</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[godzilla111111]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2012 20:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the future robots will play for the NFL solving this problem forever.
In the meantime the gubmint will keep an eye on things with its drones.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the future robots will play for the NFL solving this problem forever.<br />
In the meantime the gubmint will keep an eye on things with its drones.</p>
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		<title>By: materialman80</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1831588</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[materialman80]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2012 16:15:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[does anybody really think this will happen......]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>does anybody really think this will happen&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: baddorange</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1824641</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[baddorange]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 18:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why does this have to be publicized.  I personally am sick and tired of all the commotion and constant publicity of this perversion.  Do what you want, but shut your MOUTH.
Is Aikman a candidate?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why does this have to be publicized.  I personally am sick and tired of all the commotion and constant publicity of this perversion.  Do what you want, but shut your MOUTH.<br />
Is Aikman a candidate?</p>
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		<title>By: cornerblitz</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1824285</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cornerblitz]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 15:58:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[briang123 says:

&quot;A star QB that is a winner needs to come out to make it go as smooth as possible. And, I root for Michael Vick every Sunday, and he is pond scum, so I will obviously root for a gay player, who is likely nothing of the sort.&quot;

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Sure would be sweet, if any &quot;star QB&quot; was to come out, that it would be Vick!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>briang123 says:</p>
<p>&#8220;A star QB that is a winner needs to come out to make it go as smooth as possible. And, I root for Michael Vick every Sunday, and he is pond scum, so I will obviously root for a gay player, who is likely nothing of the sort.&#8221;</p>
<p>=====================================</p>
<p>Sure would be sweet, if any &#8220;star QB&#8221; was to come out, that it would be Vick!</p>
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		<title>By: jtylert</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1824224</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jtylert]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 15:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[P.S. - My first two guesses are Tony Romo and Vernon Davis]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S. &#8211; My first two guesses are Tony Romo and Vernon Davis</p>
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		<title>By: jtylert</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1824221</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jtylert]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2012 15:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Man... the amount of discomfort people are showing over something completely irrelevant to their own lives (someone else&#039;s sexual orientation) is shocking. I really hope players can be open about it and not have to live pretend lives their whole careers. I pray that peer-acceptance comes quickly within the NFL and that it will spread to the public.

I fear the public, as demonstrated in the comments here, is a bit behind... and that makes me sad.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man&#8230; the amount of discomfort people are showing over something completely irrelevant to their own lives (someone else&#8217;s sexual orientation) is shocking. I really hope players can be open about it and not have to live pretend lives their whole careers. I pray that peer-acceptance comes quickly within the NFL and that it will spread to the public.</p>
<p>I fear the public, as demonstrated in the comments here, is a bit behind&#8230; and that makes me sad.</p>
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		<title>By: rex1979</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1823217</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[rex1979]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 21:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right on duece5!

- Jerry Sandusky]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right on duece5!</p>
<p>- Jerry Sandusky</p>
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		<title>By: duece5</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1823156</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[duece5]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 21:12:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[n0hopeleft says:Jun 6, 2012 2:35 PM 

listenup823 says:
 Jun 6, 2012 2:02 PM
 It’s a sin… Plain and simple.. We all have sinned many times in our lives.. Not bashing just sayin..
 
_______________________________
 
Plain and simple? 

As if talking about sexuality isnt enough of a joke on an NFL based site, you go and bring your pathetic BELIEFS into it?
 
I could steal today, go to confession tomorrow, and all is right in the world if I say 3 hail mary’s? 

GET REAL.


duece5 says:

By that IGNORANT comment, you know NOTHING about the Catholic&#039;s sacrament of penance, nohopeleft.

You can pray 1 or 100 Hail Mary&#039;s. It doesn&#039;t matter if you aren&#039;t TRULY sorry for your actions.

Come to bat with an intelligent argument without bashing, IGNORANTLY, the Catholic sacrament.

YOU need to get real!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>n0hopeleft says:Jun 6, 2012 2:35 PM </p>
<p>listenup823 says:<br />
 Jun 6, 2012 2:02 PM<br />
 It’s a sin… Plain and simple.. We all have sinned many times in our lives.. Not bashing just sayin..</p>
<p>_______________________________</p>
<p>Plain and simple? </p>
<p>As if talking about sexuality isnt enough of a joke on an NFL based site, you go and bring your pathetic BELIEFS into it?</p>
<p>I could steal today, go to confession tomorrow, and all is right in the world if I say 3 hail mary’s? </p>
<p>GET REAL.</p>
<p>duece5 says:</p>
<p>By that IGNORANT comment, you know NOTHING about the Catholic&#8217;s sacrament of penance, nohopeleft.</p>
<p>You can pray 1 or 100 Hail Mary&#8217;s. It doesn&#8217;t matter if you aren&#8217;t TRULY sorry for your actions.</p>
<p>Come to bat with an intelligent argument without bashing, IGNORANTLY, the Catholic sacrament.</p>
<p>YOU need to get real!</p>
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		<title>By: dexterismyhero</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1822953</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[dexterismyhero]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 20:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok I&#039;ll say it....Drew wants an explanation....

There, done.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok I&#8217;ll say it&#8230;.Drew wants an explanation&#8230;.</p>
<p>There, done.</p>
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		<title>By: rushmatic</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[rushmatic]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 16:20:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[listenup823 says: 
It’s a sin… Plain and simple.. We all have sinned many times in our lives.. Not bashing just sayin..

________________________

It&#039;s only a sin if you&#039;ve been brainwashed into thinking so. Sin is a term created by religions to control people. 

Give your alms if you will, but do it quietly for the sake of the rest of us who aren&#039;t sheep.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>listenup823 says:<br />
It’s a sin… Plain and simple.. We all have sinned many times in our lives.. Not bashing just sayin..</p>
<p>________________________</p>
<p>It&#8217;s only a sin if you&#8217;ve been brainwashed into thinking so. Sin is a term created by religions to control people. </p>
<p>Give your alms if you will, but do it quietly for the sake of the rest of us who aren&#8217;t sheep.</p>
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		<title>By: 2ndaryinsanity</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1822070</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[2ndaryinsanity]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 12:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before anyone else regurgitates the same old &quot;it&#039;s a sin; don&#039;t flaunt being gay; being gay is a lifestyle choice; if you&#039;re gay you must be a pervert or pedophile, etc&quot; please allow me to share some of my experiences as a gay person.
When I was 17, people threw beer bottles and bricks at me because I had the audacity to hold my girlfriend&#039;s hand as we walked down a street. One of my best friends was killed (stabbed 52 times) because he was gay. I&#039;ve lost count of how many times people have called me horrible names. Pretty much on a daily basis I get to hear (some) Christians (and alot of Republicans) say I&#039;m a horrible person who&#039;s going to hell and I don&#039;t deserve to be treated with respect, and that I don&#039;t deserve equal rights. My partner of 15 years had to hire a lawyer when I was in an intensive care unit and the hospital wouldn&#039;t let her visit me since she wasn&#039;t considered an immediate family member. Where I live, it is still perfectly legal to deny me housing or employment just because I&#039;m gay. Of course, I could avoid all of this if I simply hide who I am and live a socially acceptable lie.
When we talk about an NFL player (or anyone else) &quot;coming out,&quot; it doesn&#039;t mean throwing a parade or having a news conference. It means this person makes a decision to stop living a lie, even if they are ridiculed and discriminated against.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before anyone else regurgitates the same old &#8220;it&#8217;s a sin; don&#8217;t flaunt being gay; being gay is a lifestyle choice; if you&#8217;re gay you must be a pervert or pedophile, etc&#8221; please allow me to share some of my experiences as a gay person.<br />
When I was 17, people threw beer bottles and bricks at me because I had the audacity to hold my girlfriend&#8217;s hand as we walked down a street. One of my best friends was killed (stabbed 52 times) because he was gay. I&#8217;ve lost count of how many times people have called me horrible names. Pretty much on a daily basis I get to hear (some) Christians (and alot of Republicans) say I&#8217;m a horrible person who&#8217;s going to hell and I don&#8217;t deserve to be treated with respect, and that I don&#8217;t deserve equal rights. My partner of 15 years had to hire a lawyer when I was in an intensive care unit and the hospital wouldn&#8217;t let her visit me since she wasn&#8217;t considered an immediate family member. Where I live, it is still perfectly legal to deny me housing or employment just because I&#8217;m gay. Of course, I could avoid all of this if I simply hide who I am and live a socially acceptable lie.<br />
When we talk about an NFL player (or anyone else) &#8220;coming out,&#8221; it doesn&#8217;t mean throwing a parade or having a news conference. It means this person makes a decision to stop living a lie, even if they are ridiculed and discriminated against.</p>
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		<title>By: joetoronto</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[joetoronto]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 11:07:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why hasn&#039;t Aaron Rodgers come out yet if it wouldn&#039;t be a big deal in the locker room?

He lives with his boyfriend and brings him to functions, but stays in the closet.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why hasn&#8217;t Aaron Rodgers come out yet if it wouldn&#8217;t be a big deal in the locker room?</p>
<p>He lives with his boyfriend and brings him to functions, but stays in the closet.</p>
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		<title>By: defscottyb</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1821975</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[defscottyb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 10:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who cares, why add distractions to your team. &quot;Don&#039;t ask don&#039;t tell&quot; same as the military. Just play football folks.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who cares, why add distractions to your team. &#8220;Don&#8217;t ask don&#8217;t tell&#8221; same as the military. Just play football folks.</p>
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		<title>By: rabidmike</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1821934</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[rabidmike]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 07:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Look at all the &quot;straight&quot; opinions on the &quot;gay&quot; experience.  I&#039;m sure they appreciate all the empathy.  I could careless and barely think a player coming out would be news for much longer than a week.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look at all the &#8220;straight&#8221; opinions on the &#8220;gay&#8221; experience.  I&#8217;m sure they appreciate all the empathy.  I could careless and barely think a player coming out would be news for much longer than a week.</p>
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		<title>By: mikebrownistheworstownerinprosports</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1821892</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mikebrownistheworstownerinprosports]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 05:45:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t care if players are gay and I won&#039;t hate them for it, but morally I disagree with it. So I would prefer they not have parades and press conferences announcing their sexual preference. I don&#039;t want to know about your night life. That goes for straight players too. Can they just play football and the rest stay private please?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t care if players are gay and I won&#8217;t hate them for it, but morally I disagree with it. So I would prefer they not have parades and press conferences announcing their sexual preference. I don&#8217;t want to know about your night life. That goes for straight players too. Can they just play football and the rest stay private please?</p>
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		<title>By: kingcarlbanks</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kingcarlbanks]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 04:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Screw who you want, just keep it to yourself. Sexuality has nothing to do with the game. I don&#039;t care what you want to do and who you do it with, perform on the field and everything is cool.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Screw who you want, just keep it to yourself. Sexuality has nothing to do with the game. I don&#8217;t care what you want to do and who you do it with, perform on the field and everything is cool.</p>
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		<title>By: howardforvezina</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[howardforvezina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 03:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Christians, like me, are supposed respect everyone even if they are doing something strange.(in my opinion) Hate must be avoided in moments like this even if you do not like it. Hatred is not needed in anything but is created through people who cannot accept others. I strongly disagree with being gay but im not going attack anyone because of it. Hate kills everyone in the end.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Christians, like me, are supposed respect everyone even if they are doing something strange.(in my opinion) Hate must be avoided in moments like this even if you do not like it. Hatred is not needed in anything but is created through people who cannot accept others. I strongly disagree with being gay but im not going attack anyone because of it. Hate kills everyone in the end.</p>
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		<title>By: listenup823</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1821711</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[listenup823]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 02:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I get it... People can be openly gay but people can&#039;t be openly religious.. How hypocritical is that people?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get it&#8230; People can be openly gay but people can&#8217;t be openly religious.. How hypocritical is that people?</p>
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		<title>By: 2ndaryinsanity</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[2ndaryinsanity]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 02:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sweetnlow44, you are missing the point....no one is trying to &quot;promote&quot; gay pride here. If you can&#039;t figure that out after reading people&#039;s comments on this thread, I&#039;m probably wasting my time trying to explain it. Unfortunately some here ARE trying to promote intolerance and ignorance.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sweetnlow44, you are missing the point&#8230;.no one is trying to &#8220;promote&#8221; gay pride here. If you can&#8217;t figure that out after reading people&#8217;s comments on this thread, I&#8217;m probably wasting my time trying to explain it. Unfortunately some here ARE trying to promote intolerance and ignorance.</p>
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		<title>By: btklosangeles</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[btklosangeles]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 01:52:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i know (for certain) of a pro bowl running back, a pro bowl and former SB winning QB (married to a woman) and a former all star shortstop (married to a woman- a lesbian) that have all engaged in sex with another guy at some point. anyone on this board would recognize their names. i&#039;m not in a position to say that any of them are gay, but they have at least had some kind of contact with other guys in that way.  and from what i&#039;ve heard, there are a lot of other recognizable names out there. i think it&#039;s more common than people realize. 

i have friends who are gay who have tried out for pro sports teams, and from what i&#039;ve been told, there are many heterosexual guys in the locker rooms who actually know that all this is goes on.... they just don&#039;t talk about it, and really just don&#039;t care one way or another. it just isn&#039;t talked about. or cared about. at that level, most players are too wrapped up in themselves or their own performance anyway

so i dont think that an individual coming out on a major sports team would have a huge effect in the locker room, particularly in a sport like football with so many individuals in the locker room. anyway, from my own experience, i&#039;ve realized that the team as a whole generally follows the opinions of the leaders on the team... once it is established as a team (by a few of the people that are looked up to) that something is no big deal, it&#039;s no big deal. just another thing. but nobody wants to be the gay guy on the team. i don&#039;t think it&#039;s a big deal to the majority of the people in the world, or majority of the athletes on a team... but it IS a huge deal to the individual who is coming out. nobody wants to be &quot;that guy.&quot;  

i&#039;m gay, played rugby at a high level in college, and was outed... figured it would be the end of the world. my team could have cared less. didn&#039;t change a thing. if anything, created more of a bond and stronger friendships. but in retrospect, until it happened, that was not the outcome i expected.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i know (for certain) of a pro bowl running back, a pro bowl and former SB winning QB (married to a woman) and a former all star shortstop (married to a woman- a lesbian) that have all engaged in sex with another guy at some point. anyone on this board would recognize their names. i&#8217;m not in a position to say that any of them are gay, but they have at least had some kind of contact with other guys in that way.  and from what i&#8217;ve heard, there are a lot of other recognizable names out there. i think it&#8217;s more common than people realize. </p>
<p>i have friends who are gay who have tried out for pro sports teams, and from what i&#8217;ve been told, there are many heterosexual guys in the locker rooms who actually know that all this is goes on&#8230;. they just don&#8217;t talk about it, and really just don&#8217;t care one way or another. it just isn&#8217;t talked about. or cared about. at that level, most players are too wrapped up in themselves or their own performance anyway</p>
<p>so i dont think that an individual coming out on a major sports team would have a huge effect in the locker room, particularly in a sport like football with so many individuals in the locker room. anyway, from my own experience, i&#8217;ve realized that the team as a whole generally follows the opinions of the leaders on the team&#8230; once it is established as a team (by a few of the people that are looked up to) that something is no big deal, it&#8217;s no big deal. just another thing. but nobody wants to be the gay guy on the team. i don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s a big deal to the majority of the people in the world, or majority of the athletes on a team&#8230; but it IS a huge deal to the individual who is coming out. nobody wants to be &#8220;that guy.&#8221;  </p>
<p>i&#8217;m gay, played rugby at a high level in college, and was outed&#8230; figured it would be the end of the world. my team could have cared less. didn&#8217;t change a thing. if anything, created more of a bond and stronger friendships. but in retrospect, until it happened, that was not the outcome i expected.</p>
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		<title>By: witchrunner</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 23:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Obviously, it&#039;s up to the individual.  To those who say it is no big deal, you are partially right.  I don&#039;t think it is, but then again, I&#039;m not the one who has to play with the team and face the potential repercussions from coming out.  If you want to come out at your job and to the world that&#039;s fine.  

For those who say what heterosexual players have come openly proclaimed they are straight, obviously most of them.  They don&#039;t need a press conference, they just get married, talk about who they are dating, be seen in public kissing or holding hands.  Sometimes they are commented on by the media, sometimes not.  Obviously the media comments don&#039;t include the word &quot;straight&quot; or &quot;heterosexual.&quot;  Think the same courtesy would be extended to Aaron Rogers walking through downtown Green Bay holding hands with a guy?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Obviously, it&#8217;s up to the individual.  To those who say it is no big deal, you are partially right.  I don&#8217;t think it is, but then again, I&#8217;m not the one who has to play with the team and face the potential repercussions from coming out.  If you want to come out at your job and to the world that&#8217;s fine.  </p>
<p>For those who say what heterosexual players have come openly proclaimed they are straight, obviously most of them.  They don&#8217;t need a press conference, they just get married, talk about who they are dating, be seen in public kissing or holding hands.  Sometimes they are commented on by the media, sometimes not.  Obviously the media comments don&#8217;t include the word &#8220;straight&#8221; or &#8220;heterosexual.&#8221;  Think the same courtesy would be extended to Aaron Rogers walking through downtown Green Bay holding hands with a guy?</p>
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		<title>By: discosucs2005</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 23:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@2ruefan 

&quot;That “10 %” figure is made up.&quot;

That figure is not &#039;made up&#039; it is based on the Kinsey interviews. Google it. 

&quot;So, bottom line it’s probably more accurate (in the world of super machismo athletes in the NFL) to guess that WAY less than 1% would every come “out” as gay.&quot;

Because super machismo athletes are less likely to be gay? Ever been to gym?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@2ruefan </p>
<p>&#8220;That “10 %” figure is made up.&#8221;</p>
<p>That figure is not &#8216;made up&#8217; it is based on the Kinsey interviews. Google it. </p>
<p>&#8220;So, bottom line it’s probably more accurate (in the world of super machismo athletes in the NFL) to guess that WAY less than 1% would every come “out” as gay.&#8221;</p>
<p>Because super machismo athletes are less likely to be gay? Ever been to gym?</p>
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		<title>By: sweetnlow44</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 23:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, I hope on the player profiles that it lists team, name, height, weight, position, and sexual preference because that&#039;s oh so important when it come to playing football. There&#039;s no need for football players to make public their sexuality. Go promote gay awareness/pride somewhere else.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I hope on the player profiles that it lists team, name, height, weight, position, and sexual preference because that&#8217;s oh so important when it come to playing football. There&#8217;s no need for football players to make public their sexuality. Go promote gay awareness/pride somewhere else.</p>
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		<title>By: cmon2012</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cmon2012]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 23:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So how does privacy issues work for your if your locker room teammate is gay? Just curious]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So how does privacy issues work for your if your locker room teammate is gay? Just curious</p>
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		<title>By: wtfchiefs</title>
		<link>http://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2012/06/06/gay-former-player-encourages-current-gay-players-to-come-out/#comment-1821360</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[wtfchiefs]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 22:34:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many players have come out openly to admit they are heterosexuals? 

If an athlete, or anyone for that matter, publicly announced they are gay my reaction would be the same.....BFD!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How many players have come out openly to admit they are heterosexuals? </p>
<p>If an athlete, or anyone for that matter, publicly announced they are gay my reaction would be the same&#8230;..BFD!</p>
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		<title>By: bigharold</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 22:12:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m against a gay life style for me, .. but that&#039;s because I&#039;m not gay.  If somebody is then by all means knock yourself out and be as gay as you want.  The 14th Amendment gives all equal protection under the law.  

For us as a culture it&#039;s OK that players run people over drunk with their car, or that they are alcoholics and or drug addicts, or that they&#039;re wife beaters, or serial philanders, .. OR Michael Vick, who only killed dogs for sport and profit, .. but we need to debate the impact  of gay players?  Gay is a reality acting like it&#039;s a choice or that it has a pejorative connotation or that it needs to be &quot;stopped&quot; is delusional.

Really who cares?  If you don&#039;t believe in a gay life style then date and marry people of the opposite sex and mind your own business. If a guy can play I&#039;ve no interest in his sexual orientation.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m against a gay life style for me, .. but that&#8217;s because I&#8217;m not gay.  If somebody is then by all means knock yourself out and be as gay as you want.  The 14th Amendment gives all equal protection under the law.  </p>
<p>For us as a culture it&#8217;s OK that players run people over drunk with their car, or that they are alcoholics and or drug addicts, or that they&#8217;re wife beaters, or serial philanders, .. OR Michael Vick, who only killed dogs for sport and profit, .. but we need to debate the impact  of gay players?  Gay is a reality acting like it&#8217;s a choice or that it has a pejorative connotation or that it needs to be &#8220;stopped&#8221; is delusional.</p>
<p>Really who cares?  If you don&#8217;t believe in a gay life style then date and marry people of the opposite sex and mind your own business. If a guy can play I&#8217;ve no interest in his sexual orientation.</p>
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		<title>By: sabatimus</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sabatimus]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 21:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;dogluverssuck says:
Jun 6, 2012 2:22 PM
Lets be serious. If everyone was gay, how would the world reproduce?

I’m just sayin……&quot;

You cannot be serious, even if you purport to be.  While we&#039;re discussing &quot;if&quot;s that don&#039;t exist, if everyone were OJ Simpson, how would prisons hold all of us? 

Get the picture?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;dogluverssuck says:<br />
Jun 6, 2012 2:22 PM<br />
Lets be serious. If everyone was gay, how would the world reproduce?</p>
<p>I’m just sayin……&#8221;</p>
<p>You cannot be serious, even if you purport to be.  While we&#8217;re discussing &#8220;if&#8221;s that don&#8217;t exist, if everyone were OJ Simpson, how would prisons hold all of us? </p>
<p>Get the picture?</p>
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		<title>By: sabatimus</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sabatimus]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 21:38:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To all you people who think it&#039;s not a big deal to come out, it is, especially when there&#039;s been a LONG history of stigma about being gay.  Not to mention the fact that, if you&#039;re gay, and you&#039;re walking around naked in a locker room with a bunch of other naked guys, your fellow players might think of you differently and it might make both you and them uncomfortable.  

But it&#039;s all about societal stigma.   And the person who brought up that sinning crap can go to hell.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To all you people who think it&#8217;s not a big deal to come out, it is, especially when there&#8217;s been a LONG history of stigma about being gay.  Not to mention the fact that, if you&#8217;re gay, and you&#8217;re walking around naked in a locker room with a bunch of other naked guys, your fellow players might think of you differently and it might make both you and them uncomfortable.  </p>
<p>But it&#8217;s all about societal stigma.   And the person who brought up that sinning crap can go to hell.</p>
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		<title>By: botchedextrapoint</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 21:26:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Listenup823 says
It’s a sin… Plain and simple.. We all have sinned many times in our lives.. Not bashing just sayin..


If you want to get biblical make sure you mention that all sexual immorality is a sin. Basically any action or thought that isn&#039;t about producing babies. That would pretty much include everybody. Everybody is a sinner for life no matter what you try to do to minimise it and lead a good life. I get really frustrated with Christians who single out gay people as sinners when the whole point of Christianity is about personal choice.  To quote Jesus &quot;you worry about the splinter in somebody else&#039;s eye while not noticing the plank in your own&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listenup823 says<br />
It’s a sin… Plain and simple.. We all have sinned many times in our lives.. Not bashing just sayin..</p>
<p>If you want to get biblical make sure you mention that all sexual immorality is a sin. Basically any action or thought that isn&#8217;t about producing babies. That would pretty much include everybody. Everybody is a sinner for life no matter what you try to do to minimise it and lead a good life. I get really frustrated with Christians who single out gay people as sinners when the whole point of Christianity is about personal choice.  To quote Jesus &#8220;you worry about the splinter in somebody else&#8217;s eye while not noticing the plank in your own&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: lambillio</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lambillio]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2012 21:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[to everyone who think you have such a clever argument, &quot;just keep it to yourself! it&#039;s a personal thing,&quot; it&#039;s about his being able to be himself with his team. not about showing off that he&#039;s gay. read the article - he goes to a strip club and pretends. he pretends every day. have you ever had to do that?? it eats away at you. keep your straightness to yourself. never speak about your wife/girlfriend. in fact, pretend that you dont have one. and in fact, live in fear that anyone will find out. THEN tell me how you feel...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>to everyone who think you have such a clever argument, &#8220;just keep it to yourself! it&#8217;s a personal thing,&#8221; it&#8217;s about his being able to be himself with his team. not about showing off that he&#8217;s gay. read the article &#8211; he goes to a strip club and pretends. he pretends every day. have you ever had to do that?? it eats away at you. keep your straightness to yourself. never speak about your wife/girlfriend. in fact, pretend that you dont have one. and in fact, live in fear that anyone will find out. THEN tell me how you feel&#8230;</p>
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