Comments on: Reid plans to coach Eagles preseason opener

By: sixjak

sixjak — Mon, 06 Aug 2012 03:07:22 +0000

Just in utter disbelief at some of the knowingly and unknowingly ugly comments I’m reading here. Do not judge others because they chose to deal with grief differently than you think they should based on zero information about theirp family situation. It more than likely is a family decision to go forward in honor of their son, their brother even if it is a “meaningless” game to you and I. Maybe to them, this game has become anything but meaningless. God bless the Reid family. I’m so sorry for your loss.

By: eagleearl

eagleearl — Mon, 06 Aug 2012 01:21:28 +0000

God bless you Reid family. I have never lost a child it must be horrible. I have however lost a younger brother at age 47 to diabetes. When I got the phone call from one of my other brothers I went numb. I don’t remember what I said for the next 5 minutes. Situations like this you wish would never happen but such is life.

I like Andy went right back to work the next morning before I had to fly home to bury my brother. I did this because I knew just sitting and waiting for the time to get on the plane would drive me crazy.

Just like some of you there were people that couldn’t understand why I was at work. It was to be around people I know cared about me. Those who understand you are in complete shock to what has just happened in your life.

So please don’t write about things you don’t know about. If you haven’t gone through a situation like this. Be a real humane being and just send your prayers.

My prayers and thoughts are with Andy and the Reid family

By: commonsensedude

commonsensedude — Mon, 06 Aug 2012 00:48:14 +0000

God Bless Andy Reid, his wife and family. May God give you the strength to get through this situation.

By: andyreidisarrogantandfat

andyreidisarrogantandfat — Mon, 06 Aug 2012 00:37:47 +0000

It is good that they will be together at temple. The family will need to be there for each other. This has nothing to do with football though. This is real life stuff and overcoming a sickness. I just hope however they choose to deal with it they come out whole on the other end. They need no more pain. I would not wish this on my worst enemy.

By: doughboy73

doughboy73 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 23:52:01 +0000

For those who don’t know, Andy’s other two sons are preparing for their own camp. Brit has come a long way since his troubles and is now a graduate assistant at Temple. Spencer is a redshirt freshman running back also at Temple. This family is a football family, and I wish nothing but the best for them, especially in this tough time. That being said, I think that dedicating yourself in your work does go a long way to helping maintain your sanity. It is obvious that this decision has to be a private family matter, but I think we as football fans should support the family with whichever method of coping they decide.

By: andyreidisarrogantandfat

andyreidisarrogantandfat — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 23:29:22 +0000

For those who think all of us who think Reid should not coach are wrong. Ask yourself this do you know the Reid family. Maybe what they need right now is for him to be there. I agree that there is no play book on how to handle this, but to think coaching less than days after you buried your son is healthy, I whole heartedly disagree. Of course you are entitled to your own opinion, but it just seems way too soon.

By: prplpuzzetrz

prplpuzzetrz — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 23:20:35 +0000

I am actually dumber for reading some of your comments! Actually , I demand the last 5 minutes back from a handful of you! None of us know a thing about what goes on in the Reid family! We have NO clue to the exact family dynamics. Should he ot shouldn’t he coach is not even relevant!
At this point, the only comment that should be made is , God Bless the Reid family, as a Viking fan, I am first a fan of Football in general. So, tragic loss to the Reid family, resonates through the entire league! Everyone should pray for the family, and keep your opinions about greiving to yourself! With that , I pray!

By: funktron2x

funktron2x — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 23:12:31 +0000

Good lord, people. Everyone grieves differently. If you are reacting to this like he’s doing something wrong by coaching the team, you need to stop and realize you are not related to this situation, know nothing about this situation and do not have the first CLUE about who the Reids are and what is best for them. Repeat: You have no idea, so don’t sit back and judge his actions based on what works for you.

By: gcsuk

gcsuk — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 22:50:46 +0000

For anyone who thinks they know better than Andy Reid, shut up. I’m guessing that NONE of you know exactly what he is going through.

Andy has to take care of himself, and deal with this tragedy on his own terms. Him sitting around offering condolences to his wife is not going to do anything for her. She needs to come to terms with it in her own time as well.

If coaching is what help Andy get through each day, so be it. He is going through the Hell that I’m guessing none of you have gone through.

By: andyreidisarrogantandfat

andyreidisarrogantandfat — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 22:25:19 +0000

my lack of respect for andy reid has nothing to do with football. It has everything to do with the first incident with his kids when he had the opportunity to take sabatical and return the following year and he choose football over family. I’m sure he is a decent guy and he’s a hell of a coach, but he may want to rethink this. For the sake of his kids and wife. rethink this. his son brit who has gone through the same issues needs someone to look out for him and keep him stable. be there this time and don’t make the same mistake twice. your family needs a dad right now not a football coach.

By: mungman69

mungman69 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 22:13:09 +0000

Everyone grieves in their own way. If one of my kids died I don’t know what I’d do. We lost our son-in-law and it’s been very, very hard.

By: bluefan204

bluefan204 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 21:49:29 +0000

I see nothing wrong with what he plans to do. People deal with greif in different ways, and sometimes, getting right back on the horse is the best thing for some. Prayers to the Reid family

By: deathtoromo

deathtoromo — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 21:47:59 +0000

Seriously? He’s gonna coach a preseason game? I think that in itself sheds a little light on the family dynamics in the Reid household. God bless them but get your priorities straight man. Smfh

By: mojosmagic

mojosmagic — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 21:38:52 +0000

Let me explain it another way for those who look look to judge others. The Eagles organization who Andy Reid has coached for 14 years are family. His wife Tammy and four surviving children are Eagles family. When tragedy occurs you don’t run away from family you count on family for support. The Eagles support Andy Reid in whatever he feels is right for him and his family.

By: realityonetwo

realityonetwo — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 21:31:53 +0000

Yeah, of course he’s gonna coach the worthless preseason game. How do you think his kids got to be this way in the first place?

By: jcaro5566

jcaro5566 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 21:31:39 +0000

What about being a husband and father to the family you have left! They need you more right now than your job does.

Quit being selfish and be there for your family when they need you the most right now!!

By: b3nz0z

b3nz0z — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:57:21 +0000

mind your own business

By: diversitydemocracy2011

diversitydemocracy2011 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:50:16 +0000

A friend who lost his wife to illness a few months ago said she’d made him promise not to let her fate destroy his life, in my friend’s words.

Along those lines, maybe, just maybe, coaching an upcoming game is the way Reid’s family feels it can best deal with tragedy.

That’s why we should probably give him the benefit of the doubt.

By: chrisvegas

chrisvegas — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:40:37 +0000

I don’t blame him. You can only take so much time off. Sometimes it is better to get back to work and try and take your mind of things for a while. Lets not pretend we know what is best for the Reid Family people. Staying home and mourning for your son can’t and shouldn’t go on forever. It isn’t good to spend months doing that. I don’t blame Andy for wanting to stay busy and focus on his job.

By: ghjjf

ghjjf — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:32:25 +0000

The preseason games may be meaningless to you as a fan, but for a coach they are very meaningful tools to evaluate their players in an actual game setting. The loss of his son doesn’t eliminate the fact that he has a job to do as head coach of the Eagles.

By: briscocountyjr

briscocountyjr — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:26:26 +0000

Sometimes decisions happen when you least want to do them and leaves families sad and hurting when there isnt a chance to take it back and find the good things about it and then there isnt but then judges comeout and say things griving about the way he is sad and it shouldnot be that way because god love everyone so get away from him!!

By: couldntdodiddlypoo

couldntdodiddlypoo — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:26:08 +0000

Andy must be the only one in that family grieving, and he’s probably dealing with his grief the way that’s right for him without worrying about everyone else.

If anyone else in that family does want or need any support it must, in his mind, pale in comparison to the importance evaluating pre-season game #1 firsthand.

Meanwhile, we are only left to wonder where things could have gone wrong for Garrett and Britt.

By: rodeoclownclint24

rodeoclownclint24 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:17:52 +0000

Nothing wrong with that but for him to feel bad about about missing a practice the day this happens is asinine

By: mojosmagic

mojosmagic — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:15:01 +0000

It is is amazing that people who know nothing and mean nothing are telling Coach Reid what he needs to do. I guess there are are lot of judge and jury types posting today.My advice, worry about your own lives.

By: flyeagles

flyeagles — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:14:45 +0000

I can understand how some people would be puzzled by his decision to coach a “meaningless” pre-season game, but I say what’s best for him is what he decides for himself. His mind is probably in a million different places right now, and perhaps he feels that throwing himself into football will soothe his mind. Whatever Coach Reid decides, I support him and his family.

By: eaglessuperfan

eaglessuperfan — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:05:25 +0000

Seriously people? Who in the heck are you to tell him what he should do? The guy just lost his son, let him decide how to grieve on his own.

By: rodeoclownclint24

rodeoclownclint24 — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:03:58 +0000

The owner said that Andy feels bad for missing today’s practice and probably tomorrows too? That is a stupid statement the last thing he should be feeling bad about is football should be the furthest thing from his mind right now..be with ur family and with that said prayers going to the Reid’s!

By: norwegianwud

norwegianwud — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:03:35 +0000

What an awful thing to happen to anyone. Losing a child at any age is hard to imagine. I doubt anyone would blame him for taking a break to spend some time with his family and to gather his thoughts. He may be sticking to football in his son’s remembrance. God Bless, Coach Reid and family.

By: epmckenna

epmckenna — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 20:02:16 +0000

Uhh Andy, it’s a meaningless pre-season game. Spend some time with your family. There are more important things than football.

By: coachbeck

coachbeck — Sun, 05 Aug 2012 19:55:49 +0000

Probably coaching so he doesnt have to sit in a room thinking about things. Needs a few hours away, it’s his way to grieve …. Who are we to say what is right or wrong for him and his family. Prayers are with them.