Comments on: Pioli, Crennel among Chiefs personnel who will attend mandatory counseling

By: mauicat1

mauicat1 — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 17:09:30 +0000

I agree with the mandatory therapy session for coaches and those whom have witnessed something that is so mind numbing. But, how about those heroes in the military who have seen their buddies blown in half by an IED? Legs and arms gone. Why are they not treated with the same respect as those in the NFL? These are the wonderful men and women who have given of themselves to keep us safe. This is hypocracy on the highest level.

By: steelerben

steelerben — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 16:40:40 +0000

The NFL making the counseling mandatory means that the men involved do not have to fear repercussion for taking help.

Have you ever had to go through any kind of counselling?

It can be downright embarrassing to admit you need help. They’ve been through enough. Why make them face real or perceived judgement from their peers if they ask for help on their own?

Better to give them the excuse of, “My boss made me” than to risk them passing on an opportunity to get it out, even if it means wasting an hour or two of their time if they don’t.

By: j0esixpack

j0esixpack — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 16:16:30 +0000

Those who are mocking the mandatory nature of this are proving just how deep set the stigmas against men seeking mental health support truly is

If you watched a person – a close friend or colleague – take their own life, and it hasn’t affected you, then you need counseling for THAT

Can some people deal with it on the own? Probably. Is everyone better off talking to a qualified professional about it impacted them?

Definitely

By: jspyle

jspyle — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 15:24:48 +0000

First off, my thoughts go out to those that wittnessed such a horrific event. Events such as these are life changing and dramatic, but its typically for someone (especially the men of football) to try and repress their feelings in an effort to shield oneself from the pain and their true feelings. Counseling is indeed neccesary for all involved and not only those that wittnessed it. The entire team likley needs to talk about their thoughts.

Secondly, Romeo Crennel is a class act. He may not survive the season as the Chiefs are pretty bad, but he never wavers. Never throws anyone under the bus, bad talks anyone. Just does his job and takes all of the criticism thats aimed at his team. Kudos to you Mr. Crennel.

IMO, this is an area the NFL for once has it right, and of course theres got to be the few that have issues with it. Really Jr, home of the brave???? Why am I not surprised that the first negative comment came from someone with a tag name of “Rushbacker.” Go figure.

By: 22infantryblue

22infantryblue — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 14:50:07 +0000

I think mandatory counseling is in order. As a police officer who was recently involved in a shooting, those involved in traumatic situations should have to see a professional. That does not make tham crazy, but you have to give that person a release. We as guys dont like to see health care (be it mental health or doctors) professionals so we need a little prodding. Not a bad thing.

By: sfm073

sfm073 — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 13:41:28 +0000

What does land of the brave and home of the free have to do with how the NFL runs it’s business?

By: shoeflypie

shoeflypie — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 12:33:28 +0000

Those of you complaining about the “mandatory” nature of the counseling probably have never been through a real trauma, and obviously don’t understand the need for counseling in a situation like this on a personal basis. Furthermore, you missed a very important line in the original post. It is because of their leadership positions and roles that the NFL is wise in requiring this. There is far too much interaction in sports not to make sure that these men have the opportunity to maximize their ability to contribute to the well-being and professional development of those in their charge.

By: bobnelsonjr

bobnelsonjr — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 09:32:04 +0000

Mandatory!!

They must go to MANDATORY mind control sessions or give up their jobs. Everything they say during the sessions will be recorded and kept on file in the league offices; after being read and passed around.

What ever happened to the home of the brave
and the land of the free?

This country is sprinting toward totalitarian communism and future generations will curse this one for allowing it to happen.

By: TheWizard

TheWizard — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 08:50:46 +0000

Mandatory?

Nothing against it, but not everybody needs it.

There are people who have been through / seen far worse and come through just fine, although the memory always lasts.

By: rushbacker

rushbacker — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 06:29:25 +0000

Am I the only one who thinks it’s a bunch of crap that the league is making it mandatory? They’re grown men, let them choose how they want to deal with their grief. Not everyone needs to “talk about it,” and for those who do, they should be allowed to do so with whomever they choose– not some stranger they’re forced to meet with.

By: ttommytom

ttommytom — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 05:03:39 +0000

It’s called post traumatc stress ( disorder ). Think of all the soldiers coming home. Very serious stuff. Hoping for all involved…

By: christinamer

christinamer — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 04:42:52 +0000

Best wishes to them, and I hope they can find the power within to harbor no guilt or blame.

By: fuddpucker

fuddpucker — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 04:41:51 +0000

Although KC has had a miserable season I really feel that Pioli and Crennel have shined this week in the way they’ve dealt with this unimaginable tragedy.

They’ve earned a lot of respect in my book.