Tiki asks Ronde why people don’t like him, irony dies

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Tiki Barber was a lightning rod in the country’s largest media market, never won a Super Bowl, criticized coaches and teammates who did, failed to conquer the world as a television personality and raised eyebrows with some questionable personal decisions.

So on the day his lower profile, more successful brother retired, Tiki took to the airwaves to ask Ronde “Why do so many people like you, but don’t like me?

Self-awareness doesn’t appear to have been considered as an option.

Ronde was being interviewed by Tiki on CBS Sports Radio when the Smothers Brothers-style question came up, asking once before a commercial break and then giving Ronde a moment to think about it.

“That’s a great question,” Ronde said, via the New York Daily News. “[It’s] probably because you live in New York and I don’t know if New Yorkers like anything more than loving their stars than hating them.

“They look for faults and exploit them, or failures and exploit them and it’s a national story when it’s up there.”

We can now consider Ronde the more polite one, as well.

In case that’s not the answer you were seeking, perhaps it was Tiki calling Michael Strahan greedy during a contract negotiation. Perhaps it was ripping Eli Manning and Tom Coughlin after Tiki retired. Perhaps it was leaving his pregnant wife for an intern at an old job, or comparing his persecution to Anne Frank.

Or maybe it’s just that New Yorkers are big meanies.

That must be it.

77 responses to “Tiki asks Ronde why people don’t like him, irony dies

  1. Perhaps it was ripping Eli Manning and Tom Coughlin after he retired
    ___________
    Coughlin retired? When was that?

  2. Tiki will never get it. Tiki is not a victim. He brought it all on with his mouth, his swarmy ways & his over-sized ego.

    This is a guy that could have been revered in NY. One of the best running backs in Giant history.

    He thought HE was bigger than the team. He found out he isn’t & now wants to cry foul.

    He should just go away.

  3. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Thanks guys, I needed a laugh today!

  4. So how do they explain the other 49 states that cant’ stand him either?

  5. I don’t even know what to say….Tiki must’ve lost his mind or his memory.

  6. Sometimes I’m ashamed to be a NY fan. Fickle NYers easily forget that Tiki was our ENTIRE team for the better part of 7 years. Without him, I doubt Eli grows into the 2x SB MVP he is today. It’s much easier learning QB in your first 3 years when 22 pairs of eyes are all on the best RB in the league at the time. People need to let it go already. It’s been 7 years.

  7. With all the political correctness these days, I did not expect someone to play the Meanie card. Well done.

  8. “In case that’s not the answer you were seeking, perhaps it was Tiki calling Michael Strahan greedy during a contract negotiation. Perhaps it was ripping Eli Manning and Tom Coughlin after Tiki retired. Perhaps it was leaving his pregnant wife for an intern at an old job, or comparing his persecution to Anne Frank.”

    You forgot losing a fumble in seemingly every big game early in his career and announcing his retirement mid season in an attempt to draw more attention to himself.

  9. Tiki,
    When you’re a shmuck, you’re a shmuck. And nobody likes a shmuck.

  10. I live in a small media market (200,000 people) without a pro sports team. Our local sports radio station replaced a well-liked national sports morning show with the CBS version featuring Ronde’s sister, Tiki. That was the day I stopped listening.

  11. Let’s see… he ripped your old team and your old head coach, left your pregnant wife for an NBC intern, acted like a tool while employed by NBC… I think that’s reason enough to dislike Tiki.

  12. Big Giant fan here. Other than his fumbling year, Tiki was the best offensive weapon we had during his tenure. Total package (ran w/ speed, great receiver, great blocker). Loved him. But then to reveal his ugly deluded self absorbed personality on TV and turn on his team like a rabid dog was disgraceful. What better revenge than to have forced Eli out of his shell and made him more of a leader and a champion. Toki wanted more money and thought the G-men were losers so he quit right before the season that we took home the Lombardi. Sorry Tiki, you lost my repect as well as a ring

  13. Coughlin retired? When was that?
    ___________________________

    I’m pretty sure he was referring to when Tiki retires

  14. Ronde showed up and preformed. Never any bitter contracts demands and stuck with the bucs after they lost all there stars and is a real team guy. I’m not a bucs fan but got mad respect for the way ronde handle his career.

  15. During his awful tenure on Sunday Night Football, it was obvious Tiki was a goner when he was sentenced to be a sideline “girl” while Jerome Bettis – JEROME BETTIS, got to stay in the studio. That’s when Tiki’s button popped and that turkey was done.

  16. Ronde wins Thanksgiving for life in the Barber family. Wouldn’t be surprised if Mama Barber asked to trade Tiki for Marion.

  17. dear Tiki,

    I believe it has something to do with the fact that Ronde was a stud player, a pillar of the community and a consumate professional while you were… none of the above.

    signed,

    everyone you ever came in contact with.

  18. justintuckrule says:
    May 9, 2013 3:15 PM
    Sometimes I’m ashamed to be a NY fan. Fickle NYers easily forget that Tiki was our ENTIRE team for the better part of 7 years. Without him, I doubt Eli grows into the 2x SB MVP he is today. It’s much easier learning QB in your first 3 years when 22 pairs of eyes are all on the best RB in the league at the time. People need to let it go already. It’s been 7 years.
    _________________________________
    You’re right that Tiki was a fantastic player. Looks like he has problems “letting it go” as you say since he’s still dwelling on why people hate him…7 years later.

    Sad that his greatness on the field could be eclipsed by all HE did to make himself widely unlikeable. He has only himself to blaem. And if he had let the fact that he quit on his team midseason and the following year that team went out and won a ring humble him, maybe I’d be more inclined to think better of him. But he didn’t.

    Ronde is respected as widely as Tiki isn’t. That should make Tiki think too. But again, it doesn’t seem to have done that. I guess the genes that allow someone to have class and grace all went to Ronde.

  19. Ronde is the shining example of what Tiki could have been.

    I’m sure Tiki thought he was the Alpha twin because he was so much more famous and played in a such a larger market.

    Meanwhile, it’s Ronde who won a Superbowl, Ronde who will go into the Hall of Fame, and Ronde who will most likely have a successful TV career.

    And Tiki will never get it- he will go to his grave playing the victim card.

  20. Leaving your pregnant wife for a young 20 something comes to mind. Nevermind that you throw your teammates under the bus.

  21. Tiki is a filthy piece of poop that was flushed several years ago but still manages to float back to surface once in a while.

    Go away Quitter. You quit on your wife, you quit on your kids, you quit on your team and now it seems like you’re quitting on reality.

    Tiki, nobody likes you because you’re a douche bag.

    I hope that helps little man.

  22. Tiki should be a bank officer, because in his entire life he’s never given credit to anyone.

  23. Lol. Good article. Ronde will be missed. Always seemed like a great guy.

    Tiki not so much.

  24. Does anyone have to really explain this to him, when your wife is pregnant, it is considered sleazy to be banging the 22 year intern. Even sleazier is to leave your wife for said intern. Even sleazier than that is if the intern is not even in the same zip code of looks as the wife you dumped.

    I hope the intern can suck a bowling ball thru a garden hose but that’s all he’s got left in life. The TV executives hate him, the Giants management loathe him and his ex-teammates don’t want to know his name, a well earned trifecta for being a total a$$ hole.

  25. I know this post will be deleted but I’ll say it anyway.

    Tiki Barber did everything today’s audience supposedly wants a former player to do. He gave you inside the locker room details. He criticized former teammates and coaches.

    And isn’t that what you people call being “objective?”

    Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t that exactly what Amani Toomer is doing these days?

  26. Tiki didn’t quit on his team. He announced his retirement mid season in the same way Jerome Bettis and Ray Lewis announced theirs. If you watched Tiki play at all in 06′, nobody could say he “quit”. Guy was an animal that year.

    Tiki’s only crime is that he’s got a big mouth and speaks his mind. He said the one thing that we all knew already…that Eli voice wasn’t respected in the lockerroom. For that, he’s villified.

    LT has sex with minors and is placed on top of our Mt. Rushmore.

    Wake up people. You’re priorities are NOT straight.

  27. Because you complain about everything like nothings perfect. Should have just played football. Don’t complain during and after. You may could have had a ring too. Too bad you don’t. God don’t like ugly.

  28. “[It’s] probably because you live in New York and I don’t know if New Yorkers like anything more than loving their stars than hating them.”

    Tiki would know a lot about the “hate” part.

  29. It’s been around so long, I don’t even know where the flabbergasted reference comes from, but I know what it means.

  30. I agree with you justintuckrule. The guy has made some mistakes, but you guys are grilling the guy like he killed somebody. I’m sure everyone here is a fine, upstanding citizen and would never make some of the same mistakes Tiki has, but gimme a break. Guys cheat on their wives all the time and leave them etc. I’m not saying it right, but you guys are merciless. Tiki didn’t quite on his team. He announced he may retire during the season and then did in the off-season. He continued to run his @$$ off the rest of the year. I watched, did you? He’s lost some luster in my eyes as he has in most, but you don’t need to vilify the guy to this degree. Thumbs down if you agree.

  31. The soap opera industry made billions off the storyline about secret evil twins. If the Barbers are hard up for money, they can get into that business. Tiki won’t have to act. It will just come naturally to him.

  32. Because Tiki when you retired and stabbed your ex teammates in the back to further your Selfish TV career giving negative incites the whole year while Eli and T C proved you wrong! The pregnant wife may of had something to do with it you let us down when you did those things

  33. I am hoping that Tiki one day has his “George Costanza moment” and realizes that since everything he does and says tends to be wrong, if he just does the opposite of his natural inclinations, everything he does and says will tend to be right.

  34. I guess leaving your wife when she’s pregnant is wrong, but I don’t know the details. Leaving your wife when she’s in the ICU is worse.

    Just helping to reset your moral compasses.

  35. I thought it was funny the giants started winning superbowls immediately after tiki left.

    I’m hoping to see the same result for Christian Ponder now that Harvin is gone…buuuuutt….

  36. On the other hand, it’s a question I’ve wanted asked and answered for a long time.

    More importantly, or at least as a follow up, “why do you think that’s true, Tiki?”

  37. I just imagine Tiki stomping his feet and crying like a toddler, “why doesnt anyone like me?”

  38. @justintuckrule

    I cannot disagree the guy was a great player that walked away when he had another 3 years of very high performance in him. And yes he was the best offensive weapon we had for a 4-5 years. I for one, although despicable, am not judging him on the intern/wife thing. One never knows what goes on between married couples.

    The thing with Tiki is, Tiki has a way of being patronizing even when he’s sleeping. He just always seems like he’s just being tolerant of whomever is in front of him. Just a dislikable quality about him & the way he carries himself has a lot to do with it. Watch a tape of how he spoke about Eli, there are plenty of ways to say something, Tiki went out of his way to be snide, to try & embarrass Eli. It wasn’t just a statement, it was a scoffing indictment. Tiki was blatant with his intent. It just wasn’t an ex-player giving us a look inside a locker room, it was meant to be almost mean in nature. Tiki did this to try & further divide what he believed was a divided locker room. It was an calculated attempt sabotage his ex-team, his coach & QB.

    It was at that moment my opinion & most G-man fans opinion changed about Tiki forever. He became an outsider when he did that. It’s one thing to give your opinion as Amani is doing, it’s quite another to go out of your way to intentionally embarrass & undermine your ex-teammate’s authority to try & blow the thing up.

  39. Generally, here’s why Tiki is hated:

    1) “Quit on his team”. Like tons of players before him, he announced he’d retire in mid-season. Bettis and Ray Lewis did this exact thing. Next…

    2) “Threw his teammates under the bus”. For starters, he didn’t say anything we already didn’t know about Eli. In any event, there’s a handful of ex-players that are making a living doing this very thing. Amani Toomer (love him) but he’s way worse than Tiki. Rodney Harrison, Sapp. As fans, wouldn’t we rather have this insight? Next..

    3) “Cheat on pregnant wife”. I know for a fact that they were basically separated for many months before this came out. Second, is this worse than what some of our other heroes have done? LT (sex with minors). Roethlisberger? Dante Stallworth??

    This is basically it. Since he’s been a punching bag so long, you people can’t separate what’s been said from the type of player he was. The guy was a beast and, most years, was on a crap team. He never said boo. Just played his rear end off even though teams played the Giants 10 in the box those years. Took a beating, kept on ticking, didn’t miss games, nothing. Oh well. I guess whenever he comes back to NY, I’ll be the only one in the entire stadium giving him an ovation.

  40. After failing to trick teacher by switching places. TIKI: “aww…how did u guess we switched?” TEACHER: “easy..Ronde is nice and ur an ass!”

  41. The problem with Tiki is that’s it’s always about Tiki, all the time. BTW how smarmy did he get with Jenna Wolf while covering the olympics? Why don’t people like him? You have to be kidding me.

  42. As a football player Tiki was a beast. He carried the Giants offense on his back and dispute the fumbles early in his career, will always be one of my favorite Giants players. That being said, as a person I can’t stand the man. He tried to build his TV cred on the back of his ex teammates, which is a no-no. Even though you are now in TV, show love for where you came from, like Michael, Jerome and Rodney. His lack of loyalty is what killed his rep in NY. The intern crap was just the final nail in his coffin. If he showed some genuine remorse I’m sure Giants fan would embrace him. But admitting he is wrong isn’t in Tikis nature.

  43. Gee Tiki, really hard to say for sure, but your personality began to change when you bulked up to compete at running back. I needed speed and quickness, not bulk so—you know, I never needed roids or anything. And you know everybody slows down or gets injured, but playing smarter just seemed better than roids to extend my career, so I really just lucked out. There’s nothing to those Steroid profiles guy—you’re just being paranoid. Hey you’ve got a beautiful family, I love your kids like they were my own, relax, count your blessings. Well, no, my money is tied up, can’t help with the support just now, but things will look up—-you’re the number 1 brother, after all.

  44. no. not at all. tiki is the one who threw tom coughlin under the bus after a playoff loss to carolina; who publicly derided eli in his first two seasons; and also after retirement saying his leadership skills were “laughable’; who fought with strahan and keith hamilton; who complained he didn’t get the ball enough; who also after retirement claimed coughlin misused his skills and abilities.

    he is a putz.

  45. Tiki had a pretty solid career–he just totally stunk it up after football–IMO. His off-field issues (pregnant wife/intern fiasco) and his commentary to an extent about his past teammates, etc is why people can’t stand him.

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