Carl Nassib getting support from around the NFL

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Raiders defensive end Carl Nassib has received support from around the NFL after coming out on Monday as the league’s only openly gay player.

Statements of support came from NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell, Raiders owner Mark Davis and Raiders coach Jon Gruden.

Two other members of the Raiders’ defensive line, Darius Stills and Solomon Thomas, posted on social media that they were proud of Nassib.

Nassib’s former Penn State teammate and current Giants running back Saquon Barkley tweeted, “Much respect, brudda.” Nassib’s coach at Penn State, James Franklin, wrote, “I was proud of Carl when he led the nation in sacks, but I’m even more proud of him now.”

Good for you Carl,” wrote Cardinals defensive tackle J.J. Watt. “Glad you feel comfortable enough to share and hopefully someday these types of announcements will no longer be considered breaking news.”

57 responses to “Carl Nassib getting support from around the NFL

  1. Took a lot of guts to do what he did. Too bad it’s taken so long. Way to go Carl! Hopefully more will follow.

  2. Good for you Carl,” wrote Cardinals defensive tackle J.J. Watt. “Glad you feel comfortable enough to share and hopefully someday these types of announcements will no longer be considered breaking news.”
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    The best way to stop these announcements from.becoming breaking news, is to stop making them. By that I mean, how about everyone just go about their lives -not on Instagram and Twitter. .

  3. Who cares?
    Shouldn’t have anything to do with anything.
    There should be neither congratulations nor condemnation.
    What does his sexual orientation have to do with football?

  4. My friends, gay and straight, tell me this is a big deal, but it shouldn’t be. Not in this country. Not in 2021. True liberty is the freedom to live your life without the boundaries, restrictions and definitions set by others. Thank you Carl.

  5. Good for him. Someday the trail he is blazing now will make it easier for others to follow.

  6. It is indeed heartening to see the overwhelming support for Carl, both from the NFL and the commenters here. However, one need look no further than the number of down votes on those positive comments to see that much work towards equality is yet to be done.

  7. Straight, gay, male, female, trans. Doesn’t matter to this fan; can you play the position and help the team win?

  8. Good for Nassib. Anyone asking “why do we even have to hear about this” doesn’t understand that this is a freeing thing, he can be his true self without hiding it. If you don’t understand why that matters or why it’s important then I’ve got nothing for you.

  9. My fingers are crossed that no player/coach/owner is stupid or arrogant enough to say something stupid about Nassib’s incredibly brave declaration… I also hope the media isn’t stupid enough to seek out the most conservative/religious player on each team and try to get them to say something inflammatory about Nassib.

  10. I’m not sure why this is news now. What are we supposed to do with this info? We wouldn’t treat him any differently so what’s the point of the announcement? Football is one of the last places of employment where a meritocracy is accepted as the best system.
    We should keep it that way.

  11. ninersapologist says:
    June 22, 2021 at 9:11 am
    I’m not sure why this is news now. What are we supposed to do with this info? We wouldn’t treat him any differently so what’s the point of the announcement? Football is one of the last places of employment where a meritocracy is accepted as the best system.
    We should keep it that way.

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    You clearly live in a bubble if you don’t think there is discrimination that still occurs against minority groups. You clearly don’t know many people.

    It’s a shame more players aren’t coming out and commending Nassib.

    You can’t say “why are they making a big feal of this” when we see what we see on the news and hear stories from friends and family all the time.

    Wake up, please.

  12. Just don’t turn it into one of those “silence is deafening” stories for the players who haven’t ye or don’t. Personally, I had already forgotten about it. Has nothing to do with football one way or another. The best part of the original story was that he had the support of his family and friends which is most important.

  13. To say it’s not a big deal is to demonstrate a complete lack of understanding for what life is like in his and many others shoes.

  14. I am sure the NFL will lose some bigoted fans over this announcement and support!

  15. boozygoose says:

    June 22, 2021 at 6:05 am

    Good for you Carl,” wrote Cardinals defensive tackle J.J. Watt. “Glad you feel comfortable enough to share and hopefully someday these types of announcements will no longer be considered breaking news.”
    ——————-

    The best way to stop these announcements from.becoming breaking news, is to stop making them. By that I mean, how about everyone just go about their lives -not on Instagram and Twitter. .
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    So your solution to stop these announcements from becoming breaking news is telling them to keep it to themselves/stay in the closet? You dont see an issue and serious flaw in your “logic” there?

  16. there sure are a lot of people here voting against this announcements. Psychologically that means they are not comfortable with their own sexuality.

    Good to see the bigots and weeaklings out in full force.

    And like JJ saus,.”Who gives a flying f***?

  17. For those who don’t think it’s a bid deal, sit but the tunnel and listen to the ignorant comments when he enters/exits. Always 1 guy who says it and 10 more who think it.

  18. Someone tweeted an interesting fact, something like the chance of suicide decreases by 40% if an one adult provides open support for a gay kid. It’s easy to thumbs down supporting comments — notice how none of those thumbs downers, the original cancel culturers, have the guts to publicly state their position?

  19. Good for him.

    Now if he was only able to do his job well, that would be even more terrific. As of now, he’s a brave, ineffective pass rusher.

  20. This is another step down a long road, to a place where who we are matters more than what we are.

  21. alfon says:
    June 22, 2021 at 8:49 am
    Good for Nassib. Anyone asking “why do we even have to hear about this” doesn’t understand that this is a freeing thing, he can be his true self without hiding it. If you don’t understand why that matters or why it’s important then I’ve got nothing for you.

    Are you frigging nuts? What if, he came out as having voted for Donald Trump? Wuld you similarly call THAT “brave” and “freeing”, or would you (at best) say “meh”, and (most likely) have some dumb@ssery to spew about it?

    You’ve got nothing…………….

  22. Someone tweeted an interesting fact, something like the chance of suicide decreases by 40% if an one adult provides open support for a gay kid. It’s easy to thumbs down supporting comments — notice how none of those thumbs downers, the original cancel culturers, have the guts to publicly state their position?
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    Well let’s see…”Someone tweeted” and “fact” in the same sentence is a red flag. And then “Chance of suicide”? How do you quantify something like that?? Seriously??? I have no doubt that being accepted in society is a deterrent to killing yourself but you reading a tweet and thinking “Yeah, this is something I like the sound of so I am just going to blindly spread it on the internet” is stupidity personified.

  23. Good for him though feeling that this is what he should do. But all that (should) matter is whether can he play. At least sports writing just got easier for a few more days as this story sucks the oxygen out of other stuff going on……

  24. purpleguy says:
    June 22, 2021 at 10:28 am
    Someone tweeted an interesting fact, something like the chance of suicide decreases by 40% if an one adult provides open support for a gay kid. It’s easy to thumbs down supporting comments — notice how none of those thumbs downers, the original cancel culturers, have the guts to publicly state their position?
    ___________

    Those down thumbers are the same people who support denying health care to members of the LGBT community and abusing transsexual children. Just like those who oppose equal rights for people of color, they so insecure with themselves that they have to lash out at those they perceive as being different from them.

  25. purpleguy says:
    June 22, 2021 at 10:28 am
    Someone tweeted an interesting fact, something like the chance of suicide decreases by 40% if an one adult provides open support for a gay kid. It’s easy to thumbs down supporting comments — notice how none of those thumbs downers, the original cancel culturers, have the guts to publicly state their position?
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    More of this, guys.

  26. The posts that seem to be mad here seem to be the same types of voices I heard call Parkey all sorts of terribly derogatory names here the week after he missed the double doink. One thing I will say is that your hypocrisy is consistent, guys.

  27. You clearly live in a bubble if you don’t think there is discrimination that still occurs against minority groups. You clearly don’t know many people.

    It’s a shame more players aren’t coming out and commending Nassib.

    You can’t say “why are they making a big feal of this” when we see what we see on the news and hear stories from friends and family all the time.

    Wake up, please.
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    No, I’m fully awake and I don’t live in a bubble. The point is if we make Nassib the “gay guy” then it’s going to do the exact opposite of what he wants. He just wants too blend in and be on the of the guys. His sexuality has nothing to do with anything. We need to stop with this identity nonsense.

  28. “What if, he came out as having voted for Donald Trump? Wuld you similarly call THAT “brave” and “freeing””
    ________________________

    I’d say he wasn’t born a Trump supporter.

  29. Michael Sam wanted the publicity. Nassib, by doing this during the NFL’s dead period and tying it in with a generous charity donation, it doesn’t seem as shallow as Sam trying to do a documentary without asking permission of the team who drafted him.

    I agree it will be great when this isn’t seen as news, but I’m glad the reactions to this seem widely positive or indifferent.

  30. Sunday Swami says:
    June 22, 2021 at 10:08 am
    boozygoose says:

    June 22, 2021 at 6:05 am

    Good for you Carl,” wrote Cardinals defensive tackle J.J. Watt. “Glad you feel comfortable enough to share and hopefully someday these types of announcements will no longer be considered breaking news.”
    ——————-

    The best way to stop these announcements from.becoming breaking news, is to stop making them. By that I mean, how about everyone just go about their lives -not on Instagram and Twitter. .
    ————————–
    So your solution to stop these announcements from becoming breaking news is telling them to keep it to themselves/stay in the closet? You dont see an issue and serious flaw in your “logic” there?

    See, that is the problem with this whole thing. YOU interpreted his comment as saying that all gay people should stay in the closet. That is not what he said if you paid attention. He is saying that being gay or straight shouldn’t matter and it should not be made a big deal of.

  31. Never understood why the Browns cut him he was one of their best players at the time.

  32. Those down thumbers are the same people who support denying health care to members of the LGBT community and abusing transsexual children. Just like those who oppose equal rights for people of color, they so insecure with themselves that they have to lash out at those they perceive as being different from them.
    ________________________________________________________________
    You do realize you’re doing the exact same thing that the people you’re condemning do. Taking an entire group of people, lumping them all together, and vilifying them for their beliefs. Just sayin’… As was pointed out above, it’s a shame that this even has to be considered “newsworthy” by now. If you can do your job, it shouldn’t matter what the hell you do in your home life, provided it isn’t hurting anyone or against the law.

  33. ninersapologist says:
    June 22, 2021 at 11:28 am
    You clearly live in a bubble if you don’t think there is discrimination that still occurs against minority groups. You clearly don’t know many people.

    It’s a shame more players aren’t coming out and commending Nassib.

    You can’t say “why are they making a big feal of this” when we see what we see on the news and hear stories from friends and family all the time.

    Wake up, please.
    ——————————-
    No, I’m fully awake and I don’t live in a bubble. The point is if we make Nassib the “gay guy” then it’s going to do the exact opposite of what he wants. He just wants too blend in and be on the of the guys. His sexuality has nothing to do with anything. We need to stop with this identity nonsense.
    _____________

    You have no idea what Carl wants, and I am certain that you do not care. You are the one who wants him to blend in so that you can ignore people who do not fit into your bubble view of the world. You are so frightened of those who you perceive as being different than you that you prefer to deny their existence.

  34. Well good for him. And great that this is the headlines all over the news and internet. Meanwhile, around the world we have genocides, slave trade, human trafficking, opioid epidemics, mass homelessness, mental healthcare crisis, etc., and that’s all back page news….

  35. A cousin of mine (he’s in his 30s) is gay, and most the ppl around his age know, and dont think if him as any different. Hes beast of an athlete, hilarious, and makes every gathering fun. With that said, we hear how many rude gay comments are made around him, we hear the dumb jokes, the dumb THEY GO TO HELL comments made in front of him etc etc. This IS a big deal to carl nassib. Alot of comments on here “but why should we care” its not about YOU. Its about HIM.

  36. gibson45 says:
    June 22, 2021 at 12:29 pm

    You have no idea what Carl wants, and I am certain that you do not care.
    ___________________

    And why should he care? Just because Carl’s gay?

    As so many have said, WHO CARES? He’s not a relative, not a friend and not a particularly good football player (ooooohh, sorry to speak truth about the “out” guy!). Does coming out as gay make him a special person we should all suddenly love? Not even a little.

    Everyone’s saying he’s an incredible trailblazer and we need to revere him because he came out in the NFL. Hogwash. People are gay all over, there’s nobody on earth who thought there were no gay people in the NFL.

    Go ahead and care as hard as you want to. With all your heart and soul. Just don’t tell the rest of us we need to, that we must recognize this as something monumental. Because it’s just not.

  37. This is a good thing. I’d like to think that 100% of the athletes taking a knee would also speak out in support of this, but I’m not so sure about that.

  38. In a strange way, this is also a chess move in job security…. ain’t no way the Raiders would ever cut him now even if his contract outweighs his performance….

  39. People who find reason to diminish this are embarrassing themselves.

    I played a competitive sport through college. It is a hyper masculine culture where the idea of showing an ounce of vulnerability is frowned upon. I seriously cannot imagine how hard it would be to not be yourself for all that time, and how extra on guard you would have to be in that locker room culture…because you are ALWAYS with teammates. That’s rough. And someone coming out makes it a lot less rough for the next guy, I would assume.

    Please don’t respond with “who cares?” just because YOU don’t care. For some people it matters a lot.

  40. The media: society is should be at a point where the fact that someone is gay is not a big deal.

    Also the media: An NFL player just said he’s gay! Let’s make it a big deal!

  41. youpassbutter says:
    June 22, 2021 at 2:10 pm

    Please don’t respond with “who cares?” just because YOU don’t care. For some people it matters a lot.
    ______________________

    I believe I said “Go ahead and care as hard as you want to. With all your heart and soul.”

    *checks post*

    Yes, that’s it exactly.

    I find every reason to dismiss this. Because telling the world what brand of sex you prefer is not a heroic – or necessary – thing in my opinion. If anything it’s obnoxious. Because it’s a personal thing that’s not my business – it’s not YOUR business – and therefore the question “WHO CARES”? is not only apt, it’s the heart of the matter.

    When it comes right down to it, you really shouldn’t WANT to know anyone else’s brand of sexual conduct, and it shouldn’t make you happy and delighted when someone announces it to the world.

    Whatever America may have been like when you were playing college sports, it’s now not only accepting of gays, it’s downright celebratory (as you can tell by comments like yours). So once again, I beg to differ with your authoritative statement that it’s some hugely courageous thing to do.

  42. Good way to avoid being cut or traded lol imagine the backlash …. I’m not saying that is what he is trying to do just I think outside the box ALL the time

  43. What other job could you have where you hold a press conference after being hired to announce who you enjoy being with sexually? When people question other people questioning this, try to ask yourself that question. This isn’t 1950. Most people could care less, yet for some reason this guy thinks the whole world needs to know. In the grand scheme of things, Carl Nassib is not important. And certainly who he is attracted to isn’t important either.

  44. Regardless if a player supports a gay player or not, of course they will say whatever needs to be said so that they are not “canceled”!

  45. The line about one day we hope this isn’t a big deal. That day happened a long time ago. Its like I think the only people that care are part of that community, which is fine. Personally, it took way more courage by Michael Sam a 7th round pick than it did for Nassib. Nassib just isn’t a good player. He was awful here in Cleveland. no one cares who anyone is sleeping with. Heck I don’t even care who OBJ is sleeping with.

  46. Wow I don’t care. What he does in his personal relationships is really none of my business. I understand that he and many others feel a need to “come out” but honestly you don’t need to do it for my benefit. I’m ok with not publicly displaying my sex life and I am really ok without having insights into anyone else’s. If you want recognition you will get your 5 minutes of fame but the world moves on quickly. If you want validation that comes from within. I am perfectly ok sleeping tonight already knowing there are gay professional football players. I don’t need to want names. Now let’s talk football…. Who is going to win the Super-Bowl.

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