Trent Dilfer in hot water for shoving and screaming at high school player

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Former NFL player Trent Dilfer is now the head football coach at Lipscomb Academy in Nashville, and he has been widely criticized after a video emerged showing him shoving and screaming at one of his players.

The player, Beau Dawson, is the son of former NFL kicker Phil Dawson, who is also Lipscomb Academy’s special teams coordinator. The video shows Dilfer grabbing him Beau Dawson by the front of the shoulder pads, driving him backward, shoving him and screaming at him. Several high school football coaches have weighed in to say that Dilfer’s actions were inappropriate, and Dilfer acknowledged as much in a statement released by the school.

“I want to address the incident on our sideline during Friday night’s game versus Independence that has drawn a lot of attention,” Dilfer said. “First and foremost, I take full responsibility as the head coach and leader of our team for not deescalating an emotional situation with one of our players, Beau Dawson. Beau is one of our finest student-athletes and embodies all the characteristics we are looking for in our Mustang players. Beau plays the game with the right kind of passion and is an inspiration to our other players. During a moment of frustration in an attempt to get our team to play with more discipline, I unfairly singled Beau out. Somehow Beau Dawson has been portrayed publicly as the culprit in this situation, when in reality I should have been a better leader and shown greater wisdom and discernment in how I handled this incident. Overall, I could not be more proud of Beau and the rest of our team for how they handle the emotional nature of each game they compete in.”

There has been no word on whether Dilfer will face any disciplinary action.

18 responses to “Trent Dilfer in hot water for shoving and screaming at high school player

  1. This was commonplace when i played youth/high school football. We’ve gotten soft as a society.

  2. Man makes a mistake, issues a heartfelt apology.

    Let’s all move along, shall we?

  3. I remember a Bucs game when Dilfer had something go wrong, and he came back to the sideline and threw his helmet at the Gatorade table, knocking most of it over, while screaming at, well, someone (you couldn’t see from the TV angle).

    I do believe he really is a good man, but maybe has some trouble controlling his anger.

  4. We live in a SOFT world now. I remember being shoved and yelled at by coaches. That treatment made me play and try harder. the world seems to expect coaches nowadays to treat players like gold even if they suck or mess up. It’s crazy.

  5. This was commonplace when i played youth/high school football. We’ve gotten soft as a society.
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    This times 100.

  6. So…getting chewed out by your coach is not ok in high school football? Not even when your dad and your head coach played on the same nfl team and have been friends since before you were born?

    Athletes are often alpha types, which means it takes a stronger alpha to correct them. Welcome to football, folks.

  7. teddysewerwater says:
    August 30, 2021 at 7:51 am

    This was commonplace when i played youth/high school football. We’ve gotten soft as a society.

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    pftancelledme says:
    August 30, 2021 at 10:01 am

    We live in a SOFT world now. I remember being shoved and yelled at by coaches. That treatment made me play and try harder. the world seems to expect coaches nowadays to treat players like gold even if they suck or mess up. It’s crazy.

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    Yeah, it happened when I played, too. Every single coach was a screaming jerk, all the time. I don’t think that makes kids “tough”, I think it’s poor leadership and teaches kids to make things overly emotional and that it’s OK to bully others. I’m not saying that passions will never run high and voices should never be raised, but my coaches taught us that they were never to blame for anything. These aren’t good lessons or effective leadership.

    I don’t think it’s “soft” for coaches to keep their hands off players, I think it’s crazy that it was considered OK for so long. We could also say it’s “soft” to allow kids to drink during practice – it was common back in the day for coaches to tell players they were “weak” if they needed water.

    Times change. Not every old way was good. Too many football coaches were (and still are) meatheads who think yelling is “turning boys into men”. Right. Keep telling yourself that.

  8. Looks like he was showing him the way to his seat on the bench and instructed him to sit down.
    To be honest, it looks bad, but steering the arrogant young kid to his place and telling him to sit down was probably the right thing.

  9. Grown men that think that grown men yelling at them is what made them the men they are. Hysterical. I never tried to scare my children into good behavior. And they turned out great.

  10. fearsome4 says:
    August 30, 2021 at 4:53 pm
    Grown men that think that grown men yelling at them is what made them the men they are. Hysterical. I never tried to scare my children into good behavior. And they turned out great.

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    I’m sure they do if they don’t have to deal with a meritocracy. Just work for the gubmint and collect your check for doing the least acceptable amount of work.

  11. itsunclepauley says:
    August 30, 2021 at 12:31 pm
    So…getting chewed out by your coach is not ok in high school football?

    Athletes are often alpha types, which means it takes a stronger alpha to correct them. Welcome to football, folks.

    Well, Trent Dilfer said it wasn’t okay, so there’s that.

    Athletes are often alpha types? What’s your research, professor? People just throw random non-facts out there as truth like they’re some kind of expert. Welcome to social media, folks.

  12. Not sure what his point was for berating the player but from the look at the picture you can clearly see there were a lot of people in attendance viewing this incident on the sidelines. He should apologize to the player and resign his position

  13. teddysewerwater says:
    August 30, 2021 at 7:51 am
    This was commonplace when i played youth/high school football. We’ve gotten soft as a society.
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    It was also commonplace for wives to be homemakers and subservient to their husbands, young children to ride in cars without car seats, cars without seatbelts, people smoking like chimneys in the office and home…… I could keep going. Get the point?

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